If You See A Man That You Want, Go After Him – Aisha Yesufu Urges Young Ladies
Aisha Yesufu, a well known female activist in Nigeria has urged ladies to make move if they have crush on a man.
She said:
“My husband can say this and honestly I wouldn’t be bothered. I did see him, fell in love with him and went after him and it took 8 months for him to come around.
8 months later we were married. So it was a 16-month project! From Dec 13th 1996 to April 17th 1998.
I was 23 and he was 35 when we met. Today I do tease him that ‘na so e for miss better thing if I didn’t take the initiative.
Also whenever I tease him about taking too long to make a decision he is quick to remind me that’s why I met him single.
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I have never believed that I have to wait for a man to toast me. For what? Limit myself to anyone who comes rather than who I think is a good fit for me. Most importantly I was always okay single. It was the biggest surprise for many when I got married. I was the one who would have been predicted to be single and unmarried.
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If you see him and want him, go after him, and it’s also okay for him to say you chased and got him.