Message To Wives – By Ejiro Adigbo
DEAR WIFE…
- If you want your husband to make
love to you often, have a good
attitude. No matter how sexy you
look or dress, your husband will not
find you attractive if you have a bad
attitude. - If you want your husband to be
eating with you, be pleasant to be
around. No matter how tasty your
food, it loses taste when being
around you is stressful. - If you want your husband to be
opening up to you sensitive and
difficult information, learn to keep
secrets and not to overreact.
A man refrains from sharing too much
when he is scared information will
be leaked or be misinterpreted. - If you want your husband to be
taking you out often, stop bringing
drama and ruining dates with issues
that should be dealt with at home.
No man wants to go spend time and
money at a venue where he will be
emotionally drained. - If you want your husband to solve
the issues in your marriage, stop
seeing yourself as the angel and him
the devil, stop attacking him or
labelling him as “The agent the devil
is using to in your marriage”. See
also your fault, show him you are on
the same team and seek solutions,
not finger pointing - If you want your husband to
come home early, be peaceful.
The wife tends to own the home
and so can easily make the
husband keep off if she becomes
harsh, uninviting and combative. - If you want your husband to be
chatting with you and calling you up,
be fun to talk to, make him miss you.
If each time he calls you or chats
you up it ends up with you starting a
fight, reminding him of his wrongs or
ordering him around he will avoid
communication with you. - If you want your husband to
receive your suggestions and
corrections then speak to him with a
tone of love. If you come at him
shouting, dictating at him or
manipating him he will harden up. - If you want your husband to enjoy
kissing you, then speak loving
words, be gentle, be easy to talk to.
Lips that speak words that hurt are
not attractive to kiss. - If you want your husband
to do more sweet, romantic and
special things; appreciate the
little he does and he will do more.
Complaining never inspires a
man to do better but appreciation
